Observing Love

What do you look at in a pastor?

Maybe doctrine is the first thing you look for.  Do they subscribe to Biblical inerrancy?  Are they pre-millenial, amillenial, or post-millenial?  What do they think about this?  What do they say about that?

How about their preaching?  Most people want some engaging, passionate sermons.  For others, they need to have some theological thought, or they won't be satisfied.


A pastor needs to understand what it means to be a shepherd of people.  A shepherd is a person charged with looking after the sheep put under their care, and the same is the true for a pastor.  A pastor is not merely a preacher.  Given a bit of training and some confidence, anyone can get up on front of a group of people and speak.  Add some solid Biblical knowledge, and you have a preacher.  A pastor needs to be called by God to lead, but that particular part is for another post at another time.

What a pastor needs to have is revealed in Scripture as Paul writes, "And if I have prophetic (preaching) powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge... but have not love, I am nothing" (1 Corinthians 13:2).  A pastor, that does not have love is worthless.  It doesn't matter if they can preach the tie off a televangelist.  The central job qualification of a pastor is not public speaking.  If you hold the job title of pastor, and love for those in your charge is not foremost, you need to evaluate your heart.  You are likely doing more harm than good.  If you cannot bring yourself to love those in your care, you need to stop.

What is the top complaint against Christians in America today?
They're hypocrits!  They say one thing and do another.  While a sinless life has and will only be lived by one man, Jesus Christ, who is also God, the lives of His followers should be marked by humility, faith, courage, and love.  One who is called to lead His followers, the pastor, should have a life that actively shows these qualities.

Now we come back to the original question.
What do you look at in a pastor?

I can tell you as a pastor what I believe a person should look at first in the one they chose to submit to as a spiritual shepherd.  This person should be able to say as Paul did, "Follow me as I follow Christ."  That means their life should be a life of action.  Their actions should back up what they say. 

• He preaches passionately about sharing the Gospel of Jesus Christ with the lost.  Have you seen him do it?  Has he or anyone else talked about times when he has?  
• He preaches about loving people like God loves them.  Does he?  Have you seen him caring for and loving people?  
• He preaches that you need to have an active prayer life with the goal given in Scripture to "pray without ceasing."  Does he take the opportunity to pray?  Does the prayer come from his heart? 
•  He preaches about not neglecting fellowship.  Do you know him enough to know whether those other things are true?

Take care in choosing the person who will pastor you.  Make sure that is what they are doing.

Conviction

I was watching the Avenger's today.  After Loki stabs in the back, Agent Phil Coulson looks at him and says, "You're going to lose."  His reasoning is given in his next statement, "Because you lack conviction."

I think that some Christians are more concerned with maintaining the status quo or being comfortable or safe or concerned with how well they do in this world.
They lack conviction... or they're afraid.  You cannot win that way.

“Remember not the former things, nor consider the things of old.  Behold, I am doing a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it?" (Isaiah 43:18-19).

"Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go" (Joshua 1:9).

"You adulterous people! Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? Therefore whoever wishes to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God" (James 4:4).

"Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one receives the prize? So run that you may obtain it" (1 Cor 9:24).

"I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus" (Phil 3:14).

It is time to we get some conviction and remember that God is serious about what He says...  and He is not mocked.  We will reap what we sow. 

Hand to the Plow

"As they were going along the road, someone said to him, 'I will follow you wherever you go.' And Jesus said to him, 'Foxes have holes, and birds of the air have nests, but the Son of Man has nowhere to lay his head.' To another he said, 'Follow me.' But he said, 'Lord, let me first go and bury my father.'
And Jesus said to him, 'Leave the dead to bury their own dead. But as for you, go and proclaim the kingdom of God.' Yet another said, 'I will follow you, Lord, but let me first say farewell to those at my home.' Jesus said to him, 'No one who puts his hand to the plow and looks back is fit for the kingdom of God.'" (Luke 9:57-62).

There are some morning when I wake up that I just cannot shut my brain off.  Sometimes, my thoughts are focused on one particular thing, even one particular Scripture.  It is at these times, I know God is speaking, even shouting, to me about it.

This morning that Scripture is, "No one who puts his hand to the plow and looks back is fit for the kingdom of God."  My first fear is, "Have I taken my hand off the plow?"  That is surely a frightening thought.  At his point, laid off almost two months ago, I have felt a whirlwind of emotions.  Desperation, fear, anger, pain, betrayal, etc. have come and gone.  Some of the emotions I have felt are valid.  Others are just the ripples of the shock I felt when I was first told.  I remember coming home that day after getting the news.  I was literally in shock, and everything felt surreal for the first day or so.  I never thought I would have such a reaction, but you can never understand unless you are laid off from the job that is supporting your family, the one you cannot pay the bills without.  However, in this time, I have learned more about trusting God to provide, and He certainly is.  I don't have a job, yet, but I do have some good prospects.  I try to remember that God often enjoys delivering us from falling at the very last second.  I think it reveals to us (He already knows) how much we are really trusting Him.

The question then comes, have I taken my hand off the plow?  I'm now involved and active in a different church, and I am leading a small group.  It certainly does not look like I have on the outside.  What about the inside?  You have to ask this question.  Where is your heart?  Think about all those pastors that Satan or the world as gotten a hold on.  On the outside, they probably looked just fine, or at least they didn't look like they were having affairs or embezzling money or whatever.  It was long before that when their hearts ran away from God.  No, I don't think that my heart has run away like that, but it is a reminder and a warning to me, and I hope by writing this it will be a reminder and a warning to you as well not to "forsake your first love."  If you look at your heart and realize that you have, the blood of Jesus was shed for that sin, too.  Turn back to God now!

Maybe that verse goes deeper still.  What if the very slightest appetite of the heart turns us from the work of God in this world.  Laziness wants to watch the game as opposed to doing some real beneficial Kingdom work.  I watched a documentary this morning on the Hundred Years War.  Yes, I'm a medieval history nerd.  A decree by Edward III forbade the watching of "idle games" in which football made the list because these things detracted from the more important business to do.  For Edward III and his son, The Black Prince, this was the Second Scottish War of Independence and the Hundred Years' War with France.  Today, while we do need our times to relax, do we take too much?  Do we focus on other things so much that we forget the work that is really important?  Edward III said that watching idle games made unworthy of the Kingdom of England, but Jesus said that turning back after you begin working for Him makes you unworthy of the Kingdom of God.

Press on, saints.  Do not be idle and lazy.  You are working for the King of Kings, the Great I AM, the One True and Living God!  Be renewed in Him and soldier on.

Bad Chocolates

I became a Christian in my last year of high school, but it was not until college that I really began to understand what it meant to follow Jesus.  I had a wonderful church family with a number of strong believers that encouraged me.  During college, my mom cheated on and left my dad for the other guy.  It was a whirlwind for me, and I assume it was similar for my brother.  We really didn't have any idea that she would do this.  She came back to him for a little while, but then she left again for good.  Later on, when I became engaged to woman I thought I would spend the rest of my life with.  We went became missionaries in Alaska for a short time.  After about five months, I came back to Texas to search for a job that would support us as we began our life together.  I took so time, but I managed to find a beginning, a part-time youth pastor position in Paris, TX.  The night before I left, we talked on Skype.  She ended it.  I was going through some pain at that point so I might have blocked it out, but I don't even remember an explanation, just, "I can't be your fiance anymore."  It was a long drive to Paris the next morning.

I have heard it said that we are all either just out of trouble, in trouble, or about to get slammed by some trouble.  I can testify that whoever said that dropped some wisdom on us with that particular phrase.  Peter said, "Beloved, do not be surprised at the fiery trial when it comes upon you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you" (1 Peter 4:12).  John told us, "
Do not be surprised, brothers, that the world hates you" (1 John 3:13).  These guys spoke from experience.  All you have to do to know that is read the Book of Acts, and even that doesn't tell you everything they went through.  It stands to reason that if these guys are warning us that things will gets hard, we really shouldn't be taken off guard when our life feels like it is getting flushed.  If fact, we should probably expect it.

Satan takes advantage of the fact that we don't keep a firm grasp on God's Word, and he tries to use problems in our personal life to push us away from what God wants us to do.  Sometimes it is a number of little problems, and sometimes it's a big one.  Either way, he begins hammering wedge between us and God because we believe the lie that says once we become a Christian, everything in this life will go well with us.  That's a lie!  Jesus never once promised us that.  If fact, He was very clear that the opposite would be true, and if anyone tries to tell you this life is going to be wonderful because you are a Christian, you'd better run from that false teacher like he set your pants on fire.  Our hope is not in this world.  Our hope is in Jesus Christ, and the salvation He bought us in Eternity.

Yet I have seen Christian, strong Christians, who have had legitimate personal tragedies, and they began to retreat within themselves.  They pulled back from God, the ministries He had called them to, the church family He put around them, and sometimes they even blamed Him for it.  Why?  Well, sometimes emotions can make us do things we look back on later and shake our heads, but far too often it is because they have bought into that lie that for Christians, this life is bed of roses.  It's not!  It's really like a box of chocolates, and sometimes you get that horrible, nasty, toxic sewage waste wrapped in chocolate that as far as I can tell the company puts in there to keep us guessing!

Jesus got a lot of those during His life here.  He got the religious leader trying to trap Him.  He was rejected by multitudes.  He was spit on, hit, despised, tortured, and murdered.  Those are some bad chocolates, and He told us, "If the world hates you, know that it has hated me before it hated you.  If you were of the world, the world would love you as its own; but because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you.  Remember the word that I said to you: 'A servant is not greater than his master.'  If they persecuted me, they will also persecute you.  If they kept my word, they will also keep yours" (John 15:18-20).

I don't know what bad chocolates you have had in your life.  It is likely that you have taken some from people inside the church as well as outside the church.  Jesus did.  He took it from the Jewish religious leaders and got stabbed in the back by both Peter and Judas.  Do you know what He did?  He leaned on His Father more, and He kept ministering.  I find it very troubling when I see Christians going through some hard time, and they let that pull them away from the ministry God has assigned them.  It's like taking a wound in combat only to lay down your weapon and walk away.  Did you expect it to be easy?

When my mom left my dad, I could have gotten angry at God, but that would have been stupid.  It wasn't God's fault that my mom was wrong.  He didn't tell her to commit adultery.  No, I ministered to her.  I told her that this is not what God wanted her to do.  She did it anyway, and I think she is still paying for that wrong.  When my ex-fiance left me, I could have gotten mad at God, but that would have been dumb, too.  She made the choice, and now I'm glad she did.  I'm married to a wonderful woman now.

If we follow the example Jesus gives us, not only will we continue pushing on with any ministry God has called us to in the hard times, we will lean on God all the more while pushing harder against the Enemy. That is called being faithful.  When we are faithful to His calling on us, then we can trust that God will take care of us and the hardships going on in our lives.

Firing Neurons

This morning, I was wading through my own ruminations on the connections between the physical, metaphysical, and the cerebral.  I don't always get how these things connect, but there is a connection.  Consider a beautiful autumn landscape. 

The physical complexity of it is immense!  The trees have been growing for years or even generations in that soil collecting water and minerals to reach up toward the sun and photosynthesize their food through the mechanisms in each individual cell that works together.  The trees are in harmony with the rest of the ecosystem as leaves provide food and homes for animals either on the branches or after they fall.  If not, they decay and fertilize the soil for the multitude of life in this one small patch of forest.  It's incredible, and that is just the physical!

Now, think about the cerebral part of this.  I look upon this, an amazing physical phenomena in itself that I will not go into, and I consider it beautiful.  Why?  The bouncing photons enter my eye, either from the scene itself for from the computer screen, and the electrical impulses fire from the optic nerve up into my brain to be translated.  I comprehend the array of reds and golds or the leaves on the trees.  I see the brightness of the sun.  If I am there, my other senses become involved as I hear the crunching of the leaves under my feet and feel the warmth of the sun against brisk autumn air.  I even hear the trickle of the stream that my eyes cannot see, and all of these things cause a calm through me as my brain releases chemicals, likely dopamine and/or serotonin,yet I cannot cause the release of these chemicals myself without outside stimuli for the most part.

Now, if that was not enough, consider the metaphysical.  Why did I choose that particular place to go?  Is it a product of biochemistry or something more?  I could have chosen a meadow in the Spring or a wheat field under the summer sun or a Caribean beach.  Why an autumn forest?  Did I choose it, or is free will an illusion, and it was instinct or pre-association that caused it?

The complexity of everything in this causes me to believe that I did choose it, and I have reason behind that.  You see, evolution shows us that as we have evolved from the less complex to the more complex, we are still governed by the same set of rules in order to function.  The insect does not make decisions, it acts on instinct.  The same is true for the reptile, and as the brain becomes more complex, the instincts do as well.  Yet, instinct is not what caused that.  There is a beauty that goes beyond evolutionary biology, and if you believe that evolution is how we came to this point in our existence, you have to believe that free will is an illusion.  I don't.  I see our free will enacted on a daily basis, and because I see that I believe that the beauty of the autumn forest is not only good from my brain but good for my soul.  My belief in free will also shows me that there is something beyond the physical and cerebral, that there must be a creator, an artist, who crafted this beautiful landscape, and it does my soul good to embrace that truth.

Danger: Post Youth Group

This morning on the way to work, I heard a story on Moody Radio that really got my attention.  It got me listening because it talked about a study that attempted (and succeeded greatly) in answering a question that on my heart a lot.  Some people at Eastlake Baptist know that the current spiritual growth of the youth is not my only concern because I am deeply concerned with their spiritual growth after they finish high school.  Several of you have heard me talk about it before.  The truth is that a huge amount of people leave the church after high school, and church congregations are dumbfounded.
The reason is easy to see if you are in the right place to see it.  It's the youth groups!  For most people in the church, the one criteria for a successful youth group is numbers.  If they see a lot of kids in there, they think everything must be going great.  The kids are in church and having fun.  What could be wrong?  A lot.  This single standard of measure has caused many well-meaning volunteers and paid ministers to strive for that one thing, and the way to get a lot of kids somewhere is easy.  Entertain them.  So, that's what they do.  They play games.  They watch movies.  They go to amusement parks.  None of these things are bad to do from time to time, but these youth groups start doing them all the time.  You can see the problem, right?
This study went around to college campuses, found former youth group members now involved in things like secular student organizations.  When some might think that they would find a lot of little Richard Dawkinses, lured away from Christianity because of arguments given in favor of evolution, that was not the case for the majority.  The problem for most of the former youth groupers, including Phil, who was the president of his youth group, started in the youth group, with their leaders seeking to entertain them rather than taking the Bible seriously and challenging them with it.  Kids are a lot smarter than many adults give them credit for.  They can see when you really believe something, and they respect it.
This is where it comes to the parents.  Even though the kids will grow with leaders who focus on the Scripture, most will not beg you to go to that kind of group, especially not the younger ones.  Parents must realize that their are a lot of other pulls of them.  I hear excuses like, "I don't know anyone."  Well, you will if you go, just like school.  "It's boring."  They just don't have ears to hear yet.  Give it time.  There are many more, but you get the point.  This is their spiritual health and walk with God on the line; their entertainment, popularity, and comfort and come second.  You have to be the parent, know it is for their good, and bring them, "kicking and screaming" if necessary, though hopefully not literally.
My concern over this has brought me to the conclusion, many years ago, that The Forge at Eastlake and the youth groups I have lead previous to it, need to be focused solely on God and His Word.  We will play some games and have some fun, but the focus will never be on that.
My desire is that this will be an encouragement to the youth that have been going to their youth groups and the parents who have been bringing them as well as an encouragement to those have been gone for a while for whatever reason to come on back.  We've missed you.

Sitcom Workouts

This may be the first time on this blog that I have written about a topic that, on the surface, has nothing to do with God, but as the creator of this world, everything really comes back to Him.

Working out is something we all wish we did, but sometimes it is just a pain to get yourself in the habit of doing it.  Once the habit is formed, believe me, it only takes minimal effort to stick with.  Courtney just recently got me on a recent craze that really makes getting into working out a lot easier.  They’re called “TV Workouts” or “Sitcom Workouts” usually titled with whatever show you are using first i.e. “Big Bang Theory Workout.”

There are a number of these out on the internet already made, and you can completely customize them.  Plus, if it isn’t already out there, even a complete workout novice can make their own from an example for a show they are familiar with.

Instead of describing them, I will just give you two that I have made.  The first is a Big Bang Theory Workout that I modified from several I found online, and the second a Frasier Workout that I made on my own.

Big Bang Theory Workout

Sheldon says, “Bazinga”                                                   
– 20 Squats

Anyone eats food                                                 
– 10 Burpees

Someone knocks on a door
– 20 Crunches

Sheldon gives a fact
– 10 Jump Squats

Sheldon fails socially
– 20 Jumping Jacks

Howard’s mother yells
– 30 Crunches

Sheldon is made fun of
– 20 Squats

Howard hits on a girl/mommy issues
– 20 Mountain Climbers

Raj & Howard argue/gay
– 20 Sit-ups

Amie says something lesbo
– 15 Squats

Anyone mentions Texas
– 20 Jump Squats

Anyone drinks
– 15 Fire Hydrants (each leg)

Raj can’t talk/whispers to Howard
– 10 Butt Busters (each leg)

Anyone says, “Coitus” or “Star Trek”
– 20 Mountain Climbers

Leonard longs for/fights with Penny
– 50 Bicycle Crunches

Howard mentions his Jewish ancestry
– 20 Push-ups

“The Stairs” are shown
– 20 Crunches

University is shown
– 20 Push-ups

Comic book store is shown
– 10 Lunges (each leg)

Cheese Cake Factory is shown
– 20 Calf Raises

Frasier Workout

Frasier says, “I’m listening”
- 20 Mountain Climbers

Niles creeps on Daphne
- 20 Sit-ups

Frasier offers a sherry
- 20 Squats

Martin is sitting in his chair
- 20 Jumping Jacks

Frasier hangs up with a caller
- 20 Jumping Jacks

Anyone eats or drinks
- 10 Burpees

Someone says, “Eddie”
- 30 Crunches

Eddie breaks the rules
- 10 Jump Squats

Bulldog barks
- 20 Push-ups

Daphne mentions England/Manchester
- 50 Bicycle Crunches

Someone rings/knocks on a door
- 20 Crunches

Frasier mentions Harvard
- 20 Jump Squats

Roz talks about sex/her baby
- 10 Butt Busters (each leg)

Martin does/talks about exercises
- 20 Push-ups

Someone mentions Martin being shot
- 20 Mountain Climbers

Frasier & Niles argue/fight
- 10 Squats

Frasier yells
- 20 Jumping Jacks

Frasier apologizes
- 15 Fire Hydrants (each leg)

Nirvosa (coffee shop) is shown
- 10 Lunges (each leg)

Radio Station is shown
- 20 Pushups

Courtney and I have had a lot of fun doing them together, and I am really happy about it because being in shape is something I feel very strongly honors God.  Once you become a believer in Jesus Christ, the Holy Spirit comes to live within you as a guide and helper.  Your body literally becomes a temple for the God of the universe, “Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God?  You are not your own, for you were bought with a price.  So glorify God in your body” (1 Corinthians 6:19-20).  That is why the church is not a building, it is the people.  We are put in charge of taking care of that temple.  That means eating right is not only a good habit, it is a spiritual act of worship… a sacrifice on the altar so to speak.  Sacrifice is difficult, and the area of food is an idol to many believers.  I challenge you not to let yourself fall into that trap.

You are more than welcome to use mine, modify them, etc.  I hope they help you get into the kind of shape your desire and that honors God.